Sexy Costumes – Where Can I Wear Them?

With so many sexy costumes on the market and so many women wearing them the inevitable question is where can I wear a sexy costume? While the safe answer is “it depends”, let’s lay down some general rules to guide you and hopefully avoid some likely pitfalls.

Work: Many places of employment have Halloween parties or other occasions where a costume is required or allowed. Avoid the temptation to wear a sexy anything much less a costume to a work related event. The reasons will become apparent at the event or the day after and the damage is done. Sexy costumes are generally short, tight and revealing and these are all things that don’t have a place in a work environment. But, you say, everyone is cool where I work and they are all wearing costumes. Great, dress up as a cat and wear a mask or have a friend use makeup to create the illusion of a cat face. Wear a costume to show that you like to have fun and enjoy yourself but don’t forget that you want your co-workers and superiors to view you as an equal, not a sex object. Wearing a sexy costume in the environment where a boss or co-workers see you in suggestive clothing may cause some at work to question your judgment or even worse your morals. Work is work and a party is a party. Don’t do it!

Bars: OK, but be sure you are in a group of friends and know your level of tolerance before you step out the door. Know what your girlfriends are wearing and don’t be the hit of this party. Night clubs and bars are a perfect place to let down your hair, look hot and have a great time. But you don’t want to be constantly pulling up your stockings, popping out of your top and showing off your panties, so be prepared. Ask yourself a couple of questions along the lines of; am I going to have a good time dressed like this? You notice I didn’t ask “Am I going to look great in this outfit”? Most men will agree a woman in a short skirt, stockings, a pair of high heels and a skimpy top is hot, but is that same girl having fun? Stockings generally need garter belts to hold them up and although stay up stockings work, they weren’t really made for a girl dancing for 3-4 hours, perspiring and getting up and into night club booths. High heels make a woman’s legs look awesome but they aren’t made for dancing, at least not longer than 10-15 minutes. Finally consider wearing ruffle panties if your panties show under the costume that way you don’t really care who sees them as they are meant to be seen. Also be sure you know the atmosphere of the bar or nightclub you are visiting. Is it upscale with plenty of security? Is it a dive with a bunch of gap toothed hooligans in attendance? Considering what you are wearing you may want to steer clear of the roadhouse where 3 people were shot last weekend. You can always go there next weekend.

Private Parties: Absolutely! While you need to ask yourself the same questions as above, private parties are after all private and as long as you know some of the party goers, all should go well. Lets face it some people are exhibitionists and once a year it is OK to be naughty and a party at someone’s home is the perfect place to be naughty and cute in a safe environment where men won’t get the wrong idea or if they do they are unlikely to act out in an inappropriate manner. Encourage your friends to dress “up” as you will look less like a spectacle than just another party goer wanting to have fun. A sorority or group of girls looking hot is preferable to one girl looking out of place and trashy. Also consider changing into your costumes at the party to avoid the coming and going problems. In all situations have your boyfriend or a boy friend along for the fun as you are going to look awesome. Although you are old enough to wear these costumes so you know not to drink too much and never drink and drive. Alcohol is a great equalizer and loosens inhibitions but don’t forget what you are wearing. Men are clever devils and getting their attention is fun and exciting but there is nothing worse than a guy or a girl at a party drinking too much. While this is true of any party at any location, the added ingredient is your “costume”.

Parties for two: Of course, what have you been waiting for? Role playing parties are fun and costumes are a requirement. The selection of costumes for intimate parties are growing and may be what you need although many sexy costumes can and do work in both situations. Some manufacturers offer “bedroom” costumes as well as costumes that can be worn in public. The bedroom costumes are often sheer, skimpier than their sexy costume cousins and less expensive. You decide what works best for you!

Wherever you go have fun but don’t forget that you are going to see some or all of those people in the future and impressions can have a lasting effect. Adult Halloween parties are a perfect opportunity to be naughty. You can and should look hot but not cheap and trashy. What is the difference? Modesty is the key and you should maintain it at all times. Wear accessories that cover you up with something left to the imagination. Ruffle panties are full coverage and not particularly daring. Petticoats add length and fullness to your costume. Stockings are a great way to cover your legs and keep you warm late in October. Have an alternate costume just in case things don’t go as planned. Often girls agree to dress in costumes that are revealing and risky and inevitably someone doesn’t show up, or chickens out and either doesn’t’ wear a costume or wears a less revealing costume. Also you may be going to multiple places that evening and what works in one party may be completely inappropriate in another.

Don’t forget that it gets cool or downright cold depending on where you live in late October and wear appropriate jackets or sweaters. Dressing up in costume is a great experience but don’t forget some of the old stand bys that allow you to really make that costume special. Consider buying a wig to change your look altogether. You will be surprised how different you look as a blonde, brunette or redhead. Also try wearing a mask all night and you will definitely be the mystery girl. There are plenty of masks that simply cover your eyes with feather trim or jewels. Bring a prop like a special handbag to match your outfit or a toy gun if you are a gangster girl. Many costumes include them but think about what will make your outfit special. If you are escorted by a boyfriend or husband or even just a good friend make them dress up as well. While men are less likely to want to dress up let them know it is alright for a man to dress up in costume and that you would really appreciate it if they did.

Adult Film Star – Sex & Stamina Secrets Revealed

During the course of researching our book we talked to a male escort and adult-film stars. We were trying to ascertain what it takes to be able to perform sex multiple times in one day.

One thing that makes a man sexually powerful is his ability to be multi-orgasmic. For women it is a simple process, for most of them; but it’s rare to find a man, especially after the age of 25, who can perform these functions.

From the information we gathered, it wasn’t due to the “blue pill,” or some type of stimulant, though many men think that this is how these men “prop-up” their abilities. It was due to other factors.

One important factor was that they had to believe that they could perform this way. That was a necessary hurdle, to realize that it could be done.

Diet was especially important. These men ate plenty of protein, grains, and vegetables. They didn’t eat junk food or fast food, and didn’t drink soda or take alcohol. They drank mainly water. They supplemented their diets with things like amino acids and zinc – supplements that aid in increasing the amount of seminal fluid. No smoking.

Exercise was important, too. A cardio-vascular program, as well as weight/body training. Especially the back muscles, buttocks and leg muscles, and abdominal muscles. If these muscles are so weak that they are drained during one sexual workout, it makes sense that the muscles will be too weak to perform any time soon.

Strengthening the PC Muscle(s). These are the muscles that make up the lower girdle of the pelvis and are one important factor in maintaining an erection and creating an erection. They also are related to the cremasteric muscle, which is important in testicular strength and regulating sperm temperature (sperm are very temperature sensitive) by raising and lower the testicles. For instance, when you get in a cold tub of water, your testicles will shrink up and bring the testicles closer to the body – this is to keep the sperm warm.

Is Your Husband Cheating on You With an Escort?

While it is painful to even think about, you’ve started to have this nagging suspicion in the back of your mind that your husband may be cheating on you with an escort. Whether he heads out late at night to run ambiguous errands, comes back home and immediately heads to the shower, or returns home appearing to have already showered at a different location — these are the signs that led you to believe your husband may be engaging in extramarital infidelity with an escort.

What is important to know with this type of activity, in general, is that seeing an escort is not usually one of the first steps of extramarital infidelity. If your husband has been, in fact, seeing an escort — there is a good chance that he has a history of unfaithfulness to one degree or another. As an example, before man would visit an escort, it is likely that he has a history, generally a long history, with pornography in general. In addition to viewing pornography, there is also the chance that these men have used various websites, such as married but looking websites, adult chat rooms, escort websites, and so forth, before they have actually met up with an escort.

Nowadays, finding an escort on the internet is no more difficult than it is to find a used bicycle, or a baseball glove to purchase. Classified ads websites like and offer entire sections dedicated to so-called “adult entertainment”, and these sections are rampant with men and women advertising themselves, and their bodies, for a flat-rate fee.

Because the internet is a major resource for those looking to engage in extramarital infidelity, and because men who visit escorts oftentimes have a history of visiting websites and online services which cater to this lifestyle — online investigation services have a strong track record of helping wives to determine whether or not their husbands are using an escort’s services. While you could hire a private investigator to follow your husband around, that can prove to be a costly venture, and if your husband has not yet moved on to actual “meetings”, the PIs fees may not result in a justifiable end.

However, because men who visit escorts oftentimes have a long history of deviance from their marital vows, online infidelity investigation services can help to uncover both the types of websites that your husband has visited as well as potentially catching them trying to solicit an escort. Maybe your husband has not made the step to seeking out an escort, but if you have the nagging suspicion that it could be happening, or that he is caught up in extramarital infidelity in any capacity — you owe it to yourself to find out for certain.

Choosing An Adult Assisted Living Facility

One of the most difficult elder issues involves where and how to get assistance for living activities as we begin being unable to care for all our needs personally. Sadly, the issue is so hard that many of the elderly don’t deal with it until they have little or no choice. Like any other major life issue, if you plan for living assistance in advance, the transition is much easier when the time comes. Even more sadly, money is often the only criteria many use for choosing an assisted living facility. Whether you have money, carefully planned, are making the choices for yourself or not, this article should help you choose the right care, in the right location, with the right quality of care, with the right reputation, at the right price to meet the increasing needs of you or a loved one.

Type Of Elder Care: Caring for the elderly is about meeting the current needs and providing for future needs. While a nursing home is for advanced needs or to recover from injury or surgery, assisted living is the focus of this article. This is where some of the activities of daily life (cooking, cleaning, dressing, etc.) have become too difficult to perform but you’re not in need of round the clock professional nursing. Living facilities range from Independent apartments to lock-in Alzheimer and Dementia care. If you’re still able to come and go, cook, etc. but want other Seniors to socialize with, there are apartments that include maid service, cafeteria and recreation. Probably, the most common assisted living arrangements include meals, cleaning, dressing, medicine dispensing and monitoring as part of the standard package.

Residential Senior Housing Location: After you determine the type of care you’ll need, the next most important thing is the location. If you will live near a city with a hospital, there are usually a large variety of Senior homes to choose from. They will range from private homes with 4-6 rooms for residents to multi-level care facilities with hundreds of rooms and staff members. The most important thing when choosing a location is to be close to the person who is supervising the care (usually a younger family member). It has to be convenient enough for frequent visits at all times of day and night. Certainly within a 30 minute drive from home or work. Once you know the area you’re looking for, search the yellow pages, the internet, the newspaper, ask friends and neighbors, even drive the streets building a list of potential senior homes. Then, don’t call for an appointment…that’s what they expect.

Before Contacting The Providers: Before you contact anyone for a scheduled tour, you need to do your own inspection. Drive around the building or walk around, looking for things that are sloppy, unmaintained, etc. Ask some of the neighbors what they can tell you about the home. Look around the neighborhood to see how it feels. Walk into the building as a stranger, to see if anyone challenges you and to see if there are any care issues you can spot when they didn’t know you were coming. Make notes! Now, you’re ready for the first appointment.

Caregiver appointment: The larger ones will probably feed you with the residents, show you the activity areas, give you a copy of their calendar and introduce you to the residents they know will tell you positive things. Ask to go where they’re not taking you…the kitchen, the dispensary, etc. Stop and talk to the residents who are frowning. Get permission to interview other residents and family members when you’re not under escort. Find out the legal name of the person or company that owns the facility. Get the standard pricing range. If you have a few assets, and a retirement income, money should not be an important issue. If you are required to find care on the Medicaid budget, you can ask at this appointment if they can provide care under those terms. Tell them you’re going to be investigating them and ask if there’s anything they’d like to share about incidents your investigation is likely to reveal. Make notes!

After The Appointment: Schedule interviews with a few tenants at random. Research the facility and it’s owners at the state licensing board, county courthouse and on the internet…make notes! Those homes that seem to have a lot of negative stuff you can write off. leaving, hopefully, 3-4 candidates to finish the process with.

Evaluation Appointment: The final step in the selection process is where the staff nurse evaluates the potential resident to determine the level of care they need and if the facility can satisfy that need. After this step, you’ll get the final picture on the availability of rooms and the price for care. Again, if there are a few assets and a retirement income, money should not be the deciding factor in care choices. It is foolish in the extreme to scrimp on care just to leave money to your heirs. If they love you, your care is the most important…not your money.

I know it’s hard work going through this…almost as hard as buying a home and just as important. Hopefully, you now have a few new ideas and tools to make the process a little less difficult. One final note. It’s very difficult and painful for someone who has been independent for so many years to start depending on the care of others. Expect to experience severe grief, even depression during the transition. Sometimes, knowing these feelings are normal can help you adjust.